Tuesday, December 11, 2007

面对

 去马六甲的另一个理由,是作为自我的一种练习。
 长途驾驶的练习。
 这阵子发现自己开车不再像过去那么稳定。
 下雨会紧张,塞车时情绪浮躁,精神不集中,手脚出汗。
 明明是短短的一段路,仿佛永远都走不到尽头……
 因而尝试减少开车,尤其是繁忙时间的繁忙路段。
 但是长久下去,逃避不是办法。
 不知道该如何自我改善,干脆把心一横,逼自己驶上长长旅途。
 自我调适,从新适应坐在车厢里的感觉。
 出发以前充满未知,但是很多时候,你知道自己别无选择。
 破釜沉舟,迎头面对,走出去了就没有回头。

Comments:
i also have the same problem. i used to drive at least 2h everyday....max about 2 1/2h perhaps. and almost spent 1h - 1 1/2h in traffic everyday.

it's very stressful cos you keep eying the car in front wow worrying about the cars behind and to your left or right. you start to be tempted by any space you spot and think about cutting in while others are thinking what you are thinking. you also get reckless when traffic starts to move since you want to "make up for lost time".

i end up starting to run amber-red lights for no good reason, and become quite aggressive in my driving.

Now that i live so much closer to work, i'm a very turtle and safe driver again. Nothing like traffic to drive you crazy!
 
but I have been driving for 20 years. never felt this way before.
I wonder if it's sth wrong with our traffic or is it sth wrong with myself.
 
hm, do you not take it as a "sign"?

i wonder if it's sth wrong with Singapore ['s traffic] or is it sth wrong with you [being in singapore]
 
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